The self-expansion theory provides an interesting lens through which to view close relationships and their impact on personal growth. It suggests that individuals have a fundamental drive to expand themselves, and forming deep connections with others is a way to achieve this expansion. This theory is often applied to creative pairs, such as the friendship between poet Emily Dickinson and writer Robert Wentworth Higginson. In her book, You Must Change Your Life: The Story of Rainer Maria Rilke and Auguste Rodin, Rachel Corbett delves into the transformative relationship between the struggling poet Rilke and the renowned sculptor Rodin.
Rilke’s encounter with Rodin in 1902 marked a pivotal moment in his life. Initially commissioned to write about Rodin, Rilke soon became his personal secretary, delving deep into the sculptor’s world and artistry. Under Rodin’s mentorship, Rilke embarked on a journey of self-discovery and artistic exploration. Corbett vividly captures Rilke’s metamorphosis as he internalizes Rodin’s creative principles and endeavors to infuse them into his poetry.
Despite the language barrier between them, Rodin’s guidance left a lasting impression on Rilke. The sculptor’s emphasis on hard work and dedication resonated with Rilke, shaping his artistic philosophy and approach to creativity. Rilke’s subsequent advice to Franz Xaver Kappus, captured in Letters to a Young Poet, reflects the profound influence of Rodin on his development as a poet.
Corbett skillfully weaves together historical contexts and intimate details to paint a rich portrait of Rilke and Rodin. She explores the milieu of fin-de-siècle Europe, the emergence of Freudian psychology, and the artistic movements of the time, grounding the narrative in a vivid historical backdrop. Through her empathetic perspective, Corbett illuminates Rilke’s evolution, delving into his complexities and personal struggles.
You Must Change Your Life is a poignant exploration of the transformative power of relationships and artistic influences. Corbett’s nuanced storytelling captures the essence of Rilke and Rodin’s bond, offering a compelling insight into the intertwined lives of these two creative luminaries.
