Pico Iyer’s latest memoir, Autumn Light, begins with a sudden call from his wife, Hiroko Takeuchi, informing him of her father’s hospitalization in Japan. While away from home, Iyer learns of his father-in-law’s passing. Known for his popular works like Video Night in Kathmandu and Falling Off the Map, Iyer reflects on themes of aging, death, family, and his deep connection to Japan, where he has spent a significant part of his life. The book’s title holds significance as Iyer explores the idea of cherishing things we love despite their impermanence and our mortality, finding a sense of light within this acceptance of reality.
Navigating this quest for light amid loss proves challenging as his mother-in-law and own mother face health struggles. Iyer observes the inevitability of aging even in simple activities like playing ping-pong with elderly neighbors in his Japanese neighborhood. While Hiroko finds solace in traditional rituals like the Buddhist O-Higan festival, Iyer admits his skepticism towards religious practices and the comfort they offer.
The memoir not only delves into Iyer’s contemplation of mortality but also captures Hiroko’s response to grief, showcasing her attachment to tradition and family ties. Hiroko’s grounded nature contrasts with Iyer’s introspective and melancholic thoughts on life’s cyclical nature and uncertainties. The narrative skillfully weaves dialogue and reflections, revealing insights into cultural nuances and personal dynamics.
Through poignant moments shared with the Dalai Lama, the narrative gains intimacy, offering glimpses of emotional depth and connection. However, Hiroko’s portrayal remains somewhat enigmatic, with Iyer struggling to fully convey her essence beyond surface observations. The book raises questions about cultural representations and the challenges of depicting nuanced relationships.
Despite its episodic nature, Autumn Light prompts reflection and emotional resonance, though it may lack cohesive storytelling. Iyer’s exploration of grief and the transient nature of life creates a compelling narrative that extends beyond mere events, inviting readers to ponder the subtleties of human experiences and the essence of meaningful existence.
